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Try To Work It Out


Try to work it out. Divorce may be allowed in the case of adultery, but it doesn’t mean its harmless. Divorce causes great harm to each person and the family. All other situations must be worked out. God still hates divorce. Do your best, with all that lies in you, to try to reconcile the issues and repair what has been broken. If you decide at the time of the offense of adultery to not work it out then get a divorce. The innocent party may remarry. If you try to work through the offensive of adultery  you are committed to the marriage again. You cannot come back later and get a divorce.  When you chose to stay in it and make it right that is your job now.  Everything else you must work through and stay together through!


“For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the Lord of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit,That you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16 NKJV


*The below verse is dealing with issues in the marriage outside of adultery. Work it out and don’t divorce. If separation is there don’t divorce and don’t remarry. Point for this thought is God desire for us to work it out if we can*

 “Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife. But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.” 1 Corinthians 7:10-13 NKJV

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